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Thanks for clarifying that.. I was about to ask the same thing, before Kinoko beat me to it  

I should mention that I respect your views much more now that you've explained them. Sex certainly can be addictuve (as much as drugs/alcohol, even if it's a mental addiction and not a physical one), and can be destructive if you have little or no self control. I guess we all need to find our own way to cope..

I think teh Butcher said it best in the EZBoard topic:

Why would someone miss his virginity???

Sex is a human need and one of the best ways to have fun we get in life. Of course that doesn't mean you can't love someone because you don't have a sexual relationship with her, or that sex is the only thing that keeps a relationship together...but let's face it: It is the strongest base for a love relationship. Otherwise it's just friendship.

Sex is a need, a natural thing that we all eventually must experience to be healthy human beings. If it's a sin, than why isn't breathing, sleeping, or love a sin?

That said, you can't treat sex as freely as you do taking a dump in the bathroom. It's not just about ejaculating into some stranger only to find another to bend over tomorrow.. If you find someome you love and respect, it can be an emotional experience-- not just a bodily function, like it's doubles masturbating   .

Peter: I'm curious-- What do you think you'll be missing out on if you have sex before marriage? Is there really any difference, as long as it's heppening with someone you love?

Or Yahtzee.